Worst battle: What i know VS What i feel

Been ages true? I've been busy :( MY BAD! But yeah :) I came across the title^ in tumblr and it got me thinking. It's so true isn't it?

How difficult is it to set your mind at ease when you are battling through it? You're either in the case of knowing something you wish you didn't and feeling all these mixed up emotions because of it; trying to deny it and look past it. Or you know you shouldn't but your feelings are too much and take over it, and you may act upon those feelings which may or may not ruin things. How troublesome.

I'll admit i've been in situation 1. Oh how much i wish i could look past it. But i can't. And because it's so difficult, my mind then stuffs up how i feel and i tend to act upon it. I act differently. I become lost. It's just a big mess.

I honestly don't know what advice to give in these situations. I don't think theres anything anyone can say. You can't tell someone to 'forget' what they already know. And you can't tell someone to simply, 'get over it' or for them to 'calm their farm'. Anything along the lines of that. It's easier said than done. And it must suck for those people who don't talk about it with anyone. Here's the best i could say though:

Time is what you basically need. It could take weeks, months, maybe even a year. But you will eventually learn to not let it bother you as much. And your feelings will eventually be controllable. There will come a time where this battle will end and your mind will be at ease. Time and patience is essential.

AND PLUS. YOU GOT ROSE! And i'm always here to help in the best way i can :) text, call, no matter what the time.