The breakup. That’s the part I dread most when I think about going out with a bestfriend of mine.
What’s great about going out with someone else is that you don’t have any awkwardness with friend’s and such. You can just forget about each other and live life as normal as you can. With a bestfriend, it’s so difficult to continue life normally. I honestly believe that you can’t go back to the way things used to be if you broke up. It’s so freaking hard. You just had so much history together, you know?
And I reckon that there will always be this awkwardness between you two. No matter how much you try not to let it take over. I nearly went out with my bestfriend. But I rejected him cause I was so scared that I might lose him as a friend. Now that I look back I can’t help but wonder what kind of a couple we would’ve made. What’s worse is that we liked each other continuously. On and off through out the years of knowing each other.
So yeah, the downside of being with your bestfriend is knowing that you can’t go back to being bestfriends.
Though… a downside to not being with your bestfriend is the haunting thought of what would’ve happened if you were together. Maybe you would’ve lasted forever. Maybe you would’ve stayed friends after the break up. Maybe life would’ve been hella better. It sucks.
And the most hurtful thing that could happen is if they find someone else. Who they stay with forever. And you just start to have all this regret in you. Knowing it’s way too late.
Realising this… Life is too short for regrets.
I guess if your friendship is that strong, it is possible to still be friends after the break up. And if you don’t then there is always a chance to bring that friendship back in the future… right?
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